I’m sitting here at my keyboard trying to figure out how to talk about suicide. Those that are close to me would find it hard to believe that I am at a loss for words. I just have this overwhelming fear that I will say the wrong thing.
I guess being in my late 40’s, I have known several people that have committed suicide and was at a loss for words then. None have been immediate friends or kin but I have known a couple fairly well. To be honest, I didn’t see it coming. I guess I am like anyone else. I sit around and wonder if I missed something. Is there someway I could have helped if I did see anything? Could I have stopped them? I’ll replay all the conversations in my head in the few days before just to see if there was something I missed. Maybe that will help me if, God forbid, there is a next time with another person. I think most of us are going through this.
So after another life lost in our small town, I wanted to do something. I struggled with ideas then this one popped into my head. I mean, after all, I do make signs for a living. I just wanted to make a difference. So I quickly Googled the Suicide Prevention Lifeline for the phone number and the idea for the sign above was born.
Since this is personal for me, I didn’t want to charge money. This is not a money making endeavor. Unfortunately, reality is real and I don’t have an infinite supply of funds. So I ran 20 signs and I am offering them for free. I will accept donations. I would like to run some more but only if I can get some donations and only if there is a demand for more.
Finally, if you have lost someone close to you for any reason, my heart goes out to you.
Jim
I live in Webster’s chapel. I’d love to have a sign. I will donate too. I don’t have much to give but I want to do something. Thank you!
I’ll take onev for my front yard
If I get out of the Dr in time I will be there this afternoon!
You are awesome for caring enough to do this! Thank you so very much
Proof that indeed, one man can make a difference. Thanks for caring so much for your community and its citizenry. Bless you.
Where are you located? I live right across the street from a high school. I would love to have one!
I have found that it is the “norm” for those that knew someone who’s committed suicide to “not have seen it coming.” I have known two personally in my 40+ years. Those that are in true despair are masters in hiding their pain. It’s deep, it’s personal, and it’s real. They don’t want to bother friends or family and appear weak. They don’t want to be told they have everything to be thankful for and that there are worse things. They are afraid they’ll break if they are told how selfish and self-centered their thinking is. These signs will offer people Hope & a chance to receive help professionally & anonymously. Thank you.
Beautiful Jim. Thank you for caring and taking these steps to help. I am sooooo appreciativr.
Traffic Signs, Inc is located at 850 Whites Gap Road SE, Jacksonville.